Are You Ready To Free Yourself Today!

Imagine how free your life would be if you didn’t have to think about money. Just how many decisions do you make based from a financial standpoint as against whether you want them or not? In most cases you look at the price tag – right?

But it’s so much nicer to go through life and to say ‘I want that, I want to go on that trip, I want to go to that island, I want to have that new car or I want to have that amazing pair of shoes’.

I’m not talking about not being responsible for money or not managing money because that’s important. You still have to do that. But as far as doing the things that you want to do, by thinking of it in this way then you’re not making them based on a financial decision. And as far as the Law of Polarity is concerned, the money is already there.

The first step is to accept responsibility for your life and to come from a position of entitlement. If you’re coming from a place of being a victim to your outside world where you believe that you deserve that everybody needs to do things for you and yet nothing ever gets done then you’re never going to be in the right mindset in order to bring the wealth in.

So here’s what you need to know:

i. There is more money to go around for everybody.

There’s enough money for everyone. And you can have as much money as you want and it doesn’t take anything away from anybody for you to have money.

ii. You get money by giving things.

Start off by giving who you are. The polar opposite of getting is giving. Most people enter into all kinds of business situations, networking situations, marketing situations from the aspect of getting instead of giving. And once you come from the perception of giving, it changes your perception so much so that you begin to see the opportunities that are right there in front of you to acquire as much money as you could possibly want.

So make a list of at least 10 things you would like to do right now. What would you do? Where would you go? How would you travel? Where to? Who would you take with you? What might you buy? Where would you live?

Now let your mind wander … and work out the how. Free yourself from ever making another financial decision and your life will be enriched.

We live in a world where everything is based around monetary values. And when we talk of wanting to live a wealthy life and we tend to link this to money in so much as if I have enough money to do all the things I want to do … then I’ll be happy.

Yes, a wealthy life does include a money element as you do have to live. But there are people out there telling you to visualize money arriving through your mailbox. Or sit back and imagine bank notes raining down on you. And recite an affirmation along with this to make it seem real.

Unfortunately that’s a very random approach to wealth, because if you just believe the universe is going to bless you and make you wealthy, you’re basically not sowing first. You’re trying to reap without sowing. That’s what you’re doing if you are imagining money arriving without your taking the necessary actions for it to arrive.

I love the definition that ‘wealth is the ability to get what you value by being of service to others’.

And did you notice that I didn’t say ‘money’? The reason I’m pointing this out is that some people have the idea that wealth is just having money. Let’s look at it this way. If for instance, you get a job and earn £500,000 a year, most people will be happy with that. But what if your highest priority was your family life and bringing up your children and your job is taking up six days a week and most evenings. Would that be wealthy for you?

It wouldn’t be wealth, it would be a real detriment because for you wealth is raising your children and having that family experience.

So on the other hand, if someone wasn’t that concerned about family life but they had a complete desire to build monetary wealth, then if they were able to have a job like that, they’d be very happy. It wouldn’t bother them.

So, wealth is based on what you value.

Now, here’s the key and remember this. You’ll never build wealth until wealth aligns with your true values. You’ll never build wealth, meaning you’ll never get the thing that you want, be it money or relationships or whatever else, until that thing that you want is in alignment with your current value system.

Wealth comes from the Latin root for “well-being,” it’s complete being, it’s one being.

The way to build a wealthy life is to start by identifying your true values and how you can use these in a way that serves others. This in turn will bring in the monetary aspect that will allow you to lead your wealthy life doing what you love.

Start by building every area of your well-being including relationships, health, fitness, social, dietary, money … and start to increase your overall well-being.

Article by Wendy Howard, Spirit of Venus
www.spiritofvenus.co.uk & www.grow-training.com

Where’s your passion and motivation? What is it that floats your boat? We’re so engrossed in the struggle that we lose sight of the things that things that actually fire us up. Here’s a lovely little exercise to reignite your passion.

Think back throughout the last 5 years, then 10 years, then 20 years, what are the things which have really excited you? What things have made you feel passionate?

And, then bring those images in your mind back into your life again. It may be an experience going to a live music concert or to see your child’s play. It may be when you played football or tennis with great people around you. It may be back at school or college when you had fun with the crowd you used to hang out with. It doesn’t matter what those experiences are as they are unique to you.

Think back to when was the last time you did those things? How much did you enjoy doing these things? If you’ve rather lost touch with that, go and find a way to do similar things again because If it really excited you before, there’s a fair chance it’ll excite you again.

And a wonderful story I heard which sums up the power of this simple exercise is about a lady who was feeling very depressed with her life, as if nothing was worth living for. When she was asked how long she’d felt like that, she said “since my husband died”. And that had been a number of years. So the next question was “and what did you do when your husband was alive that made you so happy?” She said, “I used to do lots of things such as water-colour painting, gardening, visiting art galleries and having friends around for dinner”. And the next question was “why can’t you do some of those things now?” and she answered, “well, I suppose I could really.” And that’s precisely what she did. She started to invite friends round for dinner and began to go out to art galleries and places of interest. She re-started water-colour painting and gardening. And when she was asked how she felt a few weeks later she said “I feel so happy and have completely changed from that dark place I’d let myself fall into”.

What she’d done was to re-ignite her passion for the things that made her really happy. It was immensely sad that her husband had died but there was no reason why she should let go of the things that made her happy in her own life. It was a case of letting go of the guilty feelings that her husband had died and to re-motivate herself to start living again and enjoy what had always made her happy when her husband was alive. In doing so, I bet she had so many happy memories of times they shared while she did some of those things again too.

So, it’s thinking back to those things and bringing them back into your life if you possibly can. This makes a big difference to your motivational level and ultimately how happy you feel.

Article by: Wendy Howard, www.spiritofvenus.co.uk

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