The Law of Polarity In Business

Is it possible to accelerate your success? Why do some people find it easy and others struggle?

It’s all to do with the Law of Polarity, which states that everything in the universe has an opposite and it’s equal in opposites. In other words, when you come across someone who has a desire or a need for any amount of money and they don’t have it, what they can’t see is that the money is right there for them already in their lives. They’re just not seeing it.

As far as the Law of Polarity is concerned, there is a pressing need for money and the opposite of this is that the money is already there – it’s just invisible to the person right now. The toughest part when somebody doesn’t have any money in their life and there is this huge pressing need to have money for whatever it is they need it for, then it’s difficult to get this understanding across to them. Because for the Law of Polarity to do it’s work, there is a need to keep an open mind that the money is already there and understand that it is only their belief system that is telling them they don’t have any money.

The first part of understanding the Law of Polarity is to understand that what they’re seeing in their life has everything to do with their belief system. They see what they believe and they don’t see what they don’t believe. So the idea is about starting to change their belief system so they can see the money.

Napolean Hill in ‘Think and Grow Rich’ calls this the sly disguises of opportunity. He says ‘when the opportunity came, it appeared in a different form and from a different direction’ than he’d expected. It’s one of the tricks of opportunity. It has a sly habit of creeping in the back door and is often disguised in the form of misfortune or temporary defeat. He goes on to say that, ‘perhaps this is why so many people fail to recognize opportunity – the opportunity for them to extend products and services and then, receive money for them.

So many people working in their own businesses do not see the opportunity until they have changed their belief system and that is the big challenge. Because when there is a need to change the belief system, it’s often where people get frozen or they don’t want to take the next action step. In other words to become of themselves they have to want to step up to the opportunity in order to grasp it.

Napolean Hill describes it in this way by saying ‘sometimes it comes in misfortune or temporary defeat because the fact that they have to make changes that are uncomfortable for them, it appears unfortunate’. They’ve got to do things that they’re already programmed to be uncomfortable with. Most of the people around the world are programmed with the idea of working for a living. In other words ‘go and get a job of some kind’. They are employed by someone else. The rules and values and beliefs that actually help a person thrive in employment to another individual are totally contrary to the rules, values and beliefs that an entrepreneur has in order to extend great service and make money.

So part of the process for an entrepreneur is to identify what their beliefs, rules and values are which are working like an operations manual in their lives that are preventing them from getting the things they want and then seeing it and recognizing it and having it flow into their lives really effortlessly. Now when I say effortlessly, this does not mean without having to do some work!

We all have 24 hours every day and we all do something within those 24 hours. So you do have to be very critical about what you do during those 24 hours. But when the belief system changes, the money and the results start to flow into the person’s life, very effortlessly.

In other words, they will still do work but the work that they do is likely to have changed to work that they love. They may have found their life’s purpose. Sometimes individuals’ change may be in the passion they feel for what they do. Or it might be in their relationships or in their jobs. Whatever it is, the results they are getting will be very different to those they had with their previously limiting beliefs.

So start by looking beyond the ‘I haven’t got the money to do this’ and focus on making the invisible visible.

We live in a world where everything is based around monetary values. And when we talk of wanting to live a wealthy life and we tend to link this to money in so much as if I have enough money to do all the things I want to do … then I’ll be happy.

Yes, a wealthy life does include a money element as you do have to live. But there are people out there telling you to visualize money arriving through your mailbox. Or sit back and imagine bank notes raining down on you. And recite an affirmation along with this to make it seem real.

Unfortunately that’s a very random approach to wealth, because if you just believe the universe is going to bless you and make you wealthy, you’re basically not sowing first. You’re trying to reap without sowing. That’s what you’re doing if you are imagining money arriving without your taking the necessary actions for it to arrive.

I love the definition that ‘wealth is the ability to get what you value by being of service to others’.

And did you notice that I didn’t say ‘money’? The reason I’m pointing this out is that some people have the idea that wealth is just having money. Let’s look at it this way. If for instance, you get a job and earn £500,000 a year, most people will be happy with that. But what if your highest priority was your family life and bringing up your children and your job is taking up six days a week and most evenings. Would that be wealthy for you?

It wouldn’t be wealth, it would be a real detriment because for you wealth is raising your children and having that family experience.

So on the other hand, if someone wasn’t that concerned about family life but they had a complete desire to build monetary wealth, then if they were able to have a job like that, they’d be very happy. It wouldn’t bother them.

So, wealth is based on what you value.

Now, here’s the key and remember this. You’ll never build wealth until wealth aligns with your true values. You’ll never build wealth, meaning you’ll never get the thing that you want, be it money or relationships or whatever else, until that thing that you want is in alignment with your current value system.

Wealth comes from the Latin root for “well-being,” it’s complete being, it’s one being.

The way to build a wealthy life is to start by identifying your true values and how you can use these in a way that serves others. This in turn will bring in the monetary aspect that will allow you to lead your wealthy life doing what you love.

Start by building every area of your well-being including relationships, health, fitness, social, dietary, money … and start to increase your overall well-being.

Article by Wendy Howard, Spirit of Venus
www.spiritofvenus.co.uk & www.grow-training.com

Can you imagine how it would be if you had a light switch that you could turn on whenever you wanted to and it would light up your life and business? How would that make you feel? What might it allow you to do?

Would it change how you viewed your past? Would it make a difference to how you view your future? Would it change how you currently create wealth?

I’m going to share that light switch moment with you … because it really does exist!

But first, there’s a very special definition of wealth that I’d like to share with you and how you can build that wealth in your future. And the definition is this, “Wealth is the ability to get what you value by serving others”.

And it’s often said by many business and spiritual leaders that ‘everyone deserves to be wealthy’. And if you follow what they teach and do what they do then you will receive the rewards they have. But the problem with this something that’s called guru-ism is that you often end up getting stuck following people instead of being leaders and realizing that you have the same traits that those people have. And you can do the same things those people have in your own way, but in a way that’s aligned with your true values, rather than theirs.

So, it’s all about connecting the parts of yourself to your true values. You need to be building your life and business around your soul values. Those things that are true for you.

Remember, that you are here to do something unique and that sometimes it might seem so daunting that even you can’t even imagine achieving it. But it’s often the very thing that people may be telling you is impossible for you to do, is the very thing that your soul may be calling you to do, the very thing that may be your destiny to do.

So start today and explore what has meaning in your life for you … and what you were destined to do.

Article by Wendy Howard, Spirit of Venus
www.spiritofvenus.co.uk & www.grow-training.com

Are you struggling to achieve your goals? Striving to better yourself and your business? But never seem to get anywhere? Many business owners and individuals struggle to make the best of themselves and their businesses.

The pressures of work can easily take over our lives. Relationships, family, health and socialising can all be put on the back burner when work builds up. In these uncertain economic times it seems even more importatnt to work whilst you can. You may be earning a higher income but if you are constantly working you will have no time to spend your money, or anyone to spend it with. We all know that money can’t buy you happiness. It may boost your feelings for a while, but it’s not going to keep you company is it?

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